How can this person even see?!
Deodorant with whitener.
Sometimes beer is brought to tables by the CASE. Less work for servers if you’re really thirsty, I guess. (We shared this one with three others in Dong Ha, Vietnam.)
Africa is full of exotic animals and crime. India has gorgeous architecture and shocking living conditions. Southeast Asia is full of bad drivers, pirated goods, clear waters, exotic fruit and dense jungles.
As is always the case, there is certainly more to every place than its surface description. One of the things I love about traveling is the discovery process. I never expected to sweat buckets in Cambodia while walking past a woman wearing jeans and a winter coat! Many thanks to Beth, Dorothea and Tara F. for sending their thoughts on Southeast Asia!
Love that photo of the Huda! MMMmmmm Huda.
Though not as delicious as bia hoi, right? 🙂
Nice post, thanks. Smiles all round. But tell me please where to find those clear waters in SE Asia. We’ve been saddened to find beach after beach of rubbish. Each time I come back here it’s worse than the time before, sadly.
That’s a shame. We definitely came upon some dirty, disappointing beaches as well. Our favorites were on Koh Lipe, Pulau Perhentian Kecil (though many people complain about the destroyed coral here, which is sadly real), Koh Tonsay and Koh Rong (but there are sandflies).
The more I travel, the more I realize there is just so much that we cannot know about a culture or a country until actually being there. Can’t wait to experience it all! Also, thanks for the heads-up about the drunk driving, that’s definitely going to alter how I cross roads or look for drivers in the evening. Yikes!
It’s so true! We were shocked in good and bad ways everywhere we went. It’s even true when it comes to getting around within a country. There is only so much research you can do about how to get from A to B, but then once you’re in-country, you will more than likely find out about easier alternatives to what you’ve read about.
Enjoy SE Asia, and be careful on the roads, especially if you rent a scooter or bicycle!
Great post! I had no idea about the “whitening” products, even while traveling in Asia (I guess I never paid much attention). The driving will stick with me forever though. It seems that lines painted on the road in SE Asia are purely for decoration. People just drove whichever way was convenient – and I remember seeing 5 cars wide on a 2 lane road at one point between Poipet and Siem Reap Cambodia.
Cheers!
Liz
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“Purely for decoration” lol I couldn’t agree more. They’re merely suggestions that everyone ignores. For such laid-back people, they always seem like they’re in such a rush once they’re on the road.
I had heard about Asian’s obsessions with keeping their skin fair before we left so I was prepared for the crazy layering of clothing in intense heat (though I was still trying to figure out how they managed to be dressed for a snowstorm and not pass out from the heat as I was trying to not melt into a puddle). What I was actually really surprised by is how in most of the countries we visited, I didn’t find the locals dressed nearly so modestly as I had been led to believe. I purposefully did not pack any tank tops or shorts above the knees because I had heard that these would be offensive in most Asian countries, but even in places like Malaysia, we frequently saw people running around in teeny tiny shorts! Certainly we also witnessed modesty such as Thai people bathing in shorts & t-shirts rather than bathing suits, but it was also clear that they don’t expect tourists to do the same as they seem to think we’re crazy no matter what we do!
Yea, it was shocking to me mostly because I wasn’t prepared for it. When you expect to see most people in shorts and instead see them in conservative clothing, that’s all you notice. Though I agree that in Malaysia a lot of the ethnic Chinese dress however they want. Their dress style made me more comfortable wearing what I wanted. I also have no idea how the people who were layered up like it was winter weren’t fainting from heatstroke! But they also eat street cart snails that have been sitting in the sun all day!
Great post! I still cannot believe and understand fully how people in SEA can wear jeans and heavy clothes when it’s super hot, honestly it’s beyond me.
Also the fact that people over there want to whiten their skin constantly is very different to what I’m used to. I protect myself from the sunlight and I don’t particularly like to sunbathe (not anymore), but I wouldn’t use body products with whitener.
Learning about so many different cultures and habits is all very interesting at the end.
Agreed. Encountering it firsthand has definitely made me more empathetic. But, likewise, I’ll never understand the winterwear in the heat!
This was a great post and a really blog, Tara! I wish that you and your hubby could continue traveling. I am about to go back to SE Asia for another 6 months and the first thing I would like to do is to go into Burma. I’ve dipped in for visa runs before, but another trip we had planned there was thwarted when my partner got a fever the morning we were supposed to fly into Yangon. So, two years later we’ll try again. What was your favorite place to go in Burma? Did you have any troubles there or things to be aware of? Thanks!
Thanks, Mike. I really appreciate that! Six months in SE Asia. I’m jealous 🙂 We really enjoyed the route we took in Myanmar and would definitely recommend these cities: Bago, Hpa-an, Mawlamyine, Bagan and Inle Lake area. We also visited Mandalay and Yangon, but we enjoyed the other cities more. The Shwedagon Pagoda in Yangon is amazing, but Bago has a very similar pagoda. We also went to see the Golden Rock. I thought it was neat and worth the visit, but Mike wouldn’t recommend it (his post on it: http://wp.me/p1Dtll-Zf). We didn’t have any troubles in-country. It was actually a fun and not-too-difficult place to travel in. That said, public transportation isn’t great. But if you’ve traveled in Laos, it’s similar. The only other thing is that there are many off-limit areas for foreign tourists, and hotels/transport tend to book up quickly. Just be flexible and have a back-up plan. Or plan ahead as much as possible. Safe travels and let me know if you have any other questions!
Thank you so much Tara! I appreciate your thoughtful insight and response. Bagan is on the top of my list. I wanted to see the Golden Rock, but I have already experience Wat fatigue so won’t be too disappointed if we don’t make it there. I’ll read Mike’s post about it.
I was a little worried, because Burma is one place I would like to bring my fancier camera to travel with. But I haven’t heard of people having too much trouble there as far as theft, etc. I am aware of the off-limit zones in Burma and the tourist triangle. It’s really interesting, and I am looking forward to seeing it for myself.
I’ve already been through the gauntlet of the Myanmar consulate in BKK and am not really looking forward to being back there. Look forward to reading more of your posts. You’ve got a great travel blog!
I just launched a Kickstarter yesterday related to my volunteering work on the Thai-Burma border. If you know anyone who likes affordable art for a good cause please share… 🙂 Here’s the link:
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/155591641/thailand-burma-flora-fauna-a-handmade-print-series
Happy travels,
Mike
Haha, the part about the bus fees being collected at random times in the middle of a trip made me laugh out loud. Why they prefer to do this I will never understand… My travel companions and I will definitely have to read all of your Burma posts. It sounds like a pretty miserable trip up the mountain to the Golden Rock. Did you take the train to Bagan? Anthony Bourdain has good footage of it– have you seen this episode of his in Burma? It’s actually really well done.
http://www.cnn.com/video/shows/anthony-bourdain-parts-unknown/episode1/index.html
Thanks again!